“I’d love to know how to make my husband want me again.” How many of us have thought this at some point during our marriages? Unfortunately for us the honeymoon phase tends to be short lived and once real life enters the mix of the marriage, your husband may change. Even if he was completely attentive, loving and seemed to adore you endlessly early in the relationship, that can all change. If you’re married to a man who you don’t think loves you as much as he once did, there’s no reason you can’t reignite his interest all over again.When I was thinking about how to make my husband want me again I began with considering how I’d been treating him recently. Once we become moms and we have to juggle parenthood with work with financial responsibilities, it can all take its toll. Be honest with yourself about whether or not you’ve been neglecting your husband in recent months. Men are very sensitive to what their wives are feeling and if he senses that you’re overwhelmed it can make him pull back. Focus more of your time and energy on him. Show him, through your actions, that he’s still the most important person in the world to you. Make him feel valued and it will ultimately make him treat you more affectionately too. Don’t underestimate the power in planning a few date nights with your man. It doesn’t have to be anything elaborate. You can even just arrange for a sitter and then surprise your husband with his favorite dinner at home. The point here is to do things that make him feel that you want and need to spend time with him. If he feels that you’re still madly in love with him, it will reawaken those feelings in him as well.
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